Why can't the Heat/Lebron fans just take this years loss like a man instead of like a man up the butt?

Now that they lost they can't direct their attention to the Mavs anymore so now they have to try to recreate debates that aren't even relevant just to justify the fact that they lost.Stop asking these questions about the Lakers and Kobe and bringing up old defeats like they haven't won 5 titles in the past decade.Just take this loss and move onto next year....I know it hurts,but dang LET IT GO!!!I know you guys have better lives than this.