If your a hair expert or do your hair curly, please help!?

Ok so heresmy problem ..i am a teen with the blood backround of argentinians.. my hair gets curly but needs patience. Where i live girls are soo creative with there hair and i really want to know how they do there hair.. the results come out beautiful to me. But heres the actual problem i do my hair curly with Garnier Fructis Style curl scrunch gel, Garnier Fructis Style root booster, Fantasia olive moisturizing shine serum, And Garnier Fructis Style anti-humidity hairspray. Thing is.. i do this around 6:30 in the morning right after i shower with a blowdryer and the defuser attached to it. The resutls come out ok.. but them it starts getting frizzy and puffy. Ive heard homemade flaxseed gel really works but im not sure.. im kind of looking for the results of this kind of hair or anything really close to it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CToLrvQHIqY&feature=related but i dont really want it that puffy..smaller..i would show one of my friends but i dont want anyone adding her so yea.. anyways my hair is a little below my chest area and it gets puffy though i have natural wavy curls already i just really want to get my hair nice and curly .. it always turns out to be a bun when i put it curly. please help! i want to do my hair diffrent other then straight and messy buns. Ive also heard it wont get as puffy if u do it in the night time with flaxseed gel and put it into french braids into like 10 sections and leave it there until the morning.. please help thank you!